I can't seem to sexually perform with my wife anymore. Her physical deterioration, the impact this is having on our sex life, I can't get ready for love making. I've been....

A woman who has not had intercourse before and still has her intact hymen will many times experience pain the first few times she has intercourse.

Usually what happens is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is making love or pleasing the partner with satisfaction, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the love making encounter, focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that they're having as opposed to the...