shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 6 days ago | women, race
The all-black issue of Vogue in Italy really was amazing. This is a great interview with Bethann Hardison, who's basically responsible for signing some of the most famous black models in the U.S.
Quoted: An interview with legendary modeling agent Bethann Hardison who signed models like Iman and Naomi Campbell.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 13 days ago | women, news
It's absurd that day care workers are paid so little when it costs so much. I still think that subsidized day care (and incentivizing companies to provide day care) needs to be a much higher priority than it is in political discussions. But that's not likely to happen until we see more women in politics...
Quoted: Can I cut it as a day care worker, one of the most exhausting, worst paid, and smelliest jobs in America?
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 19 days ago | politics, television, women, news
Wow, it's amazing how much thought Michelle Obama had to put into every detail of this appearance on The View.
Quoted: Obama had approached the appearance, to quote Barbara Walters' on-air reading of the morning's New York Times, "with an eye toward softening her reputation." To this end, she did not do her hair in the Jackie Kennedy flip that André Leon Talley—the Vogue editor who Page Six alleges to be her style guru—pegs as central to her "image strategy."
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 20 days ago | race, women, fashion, news
Neat idea, actually. I really think the attitude of "oh, we have a black girl already" that's called out in the article still persists.
Quoted: The July issue of Italian Vogue calls attention to prejudice by using only women of color.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 22 days ago | health, women
I never realized HPV could cause cancer in men. But I think vaccinating men for HPV will be treated a lot like birth control by legislators - in other words, it's a "woman problem."
Quoted: The virus that causes cervical cancer also leads to throat cancer in males. Now researchers are looking into whether the vaccine should be given to boys, both to prevent the spread of HPV, and to prevent the rarer, but no less deadly, cancers that can occur in men from the virus.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - 27 days ago | politics, news, women
Amen! Meanwhile, that's a great bumper sticker: "A woman's place is in the House."
Quoted: As we keep our collective eye on November, the media's sexist attacks against Clinton should not be allowed to stand.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - Jun 04 2008 | women, politics, news
This writer makes some good points that I agree with (for example, the notion that a lot of Hillary's "bitterness" comes from unduly harsh treatment of her). But I disagree with the idea that Hillary should've dwelled more on potentially being the first female president - she would've been slammed as manipulative and weak. Plus, it's very telling that there aren't any alternative models...
Quoted: In the coming days, as Hillary Clinton moves to the sidelines and Barack Obama takes the stage alone, many people will suggest that America just wasn't ready for a female president. This may be true. But we'll never entirely know, because her problem wasn't that she was a feminist. Her problem was that she wasn't feminist enough.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - May 30 2008 | women, movies
Good point. I think this happens with Latino actresses as well - they end up playing the sassy best friend who 'tells it like it is.'
Quoted: As the black best friend in Sex and the City: The Movie, Jennifer Hudson plays a tired role.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - May 29 2008 | women, sexuality, health
Fascinating! Makes sense, though...
Quoted: When the women of Sex and the City find themselves outside NY, they aren't happy about it—until Samantha spots a hunky, half-naked farmer and seduces him out of his overalls. And thus the show discovers what researchers have been documenting over the last decade or more: It's the country, rather than the city, where more of the sex is.
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shiwani | Shared With: Everyone - May 28 2008 | women, politics, news
Great article - I agree that Clinton not clinching the nomination does not equal never seeing another woman candidate in our lifetimes. But the fact that women are questioning that proves there's still a lot of work to be done!
Quoted: It's enough to make a girl want to run for president … With Hillary edging ever closer to the won't-finish line in the primary, the inevitable rending of garments that a woman may never mount a successful run for the presidency has begun.
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You must be shiwani's friend before you can comment on this Fave.Q : what are the orders - are they the same or do women ask for more complicated orders?
Q : who are the servers? are the servers college age boys?
Sung you ask way too many questions. j/k
The first question is a valid one. I have noticed that women's orders are more custom than the men's.
yeah, in the study, the author notes that women often order more complicated drinks. but he actually compared when women and men were ordering the same drinks. he also looked at the gender/age of the servers and found women were mostly served slower when the servers were men... BUT, i'm not sure if the amount of time he found (20 seconds) is THAT significant...
"This is an intriguing piece of research because coffee shops appear to be a competitive business, and one thing we economists think we know about discrimination is that competition should tend to erode it."
silly economist... why should the $9/hr kid behind the counter care how competitive the business is?
good point... and if the people being discriminated against don't realize they're being treated differently (by 20 seconds), there isn't going to be a backlash.
hmm... since this seems to be a topic of interest i'll give my two cents.
in the past i have worked as a bean squeezer and have been on the making end of these cafes and here's what i experienced. men tend to order simple stuff - such as. an americano with room. easy - shot of espresso + hot water = done! while women tended to order more complicated stuff - double split shot wet cap. with 2% milk.
now if i get an order like this.
01. americano
02. double split shot wet cap. with 2% milk
03. americano
then i'm pulling two single shots - adding a shot each to a cup + add hot water to both and order 01. and order 03. is done! then i'll work on the double split shot wet cap. with 2% milk... which of course means the lady will get her order later.
I've never noticed this type of discrimination getting coffee, but I'll probably start looking for it now. I've had a ton of customer service jobs in the past myself, including barista, waitress, retail, etc. and I guess one conclusion I have is that if you're slammed or understaffed or something else is going wrong, subconsciously you're more likely to not want to make a male customer angry than a female customer, so maybe that's why they're getting served first. This is simply because of the bullshit long-suffering, me-last nature of most women -- you know they'll be less likely to speak up for themselves and much more likely to just "be nice" and not yell at you. A displeased male customer is more likely to lash out at you, than a female customer, I think. Like I said, it's bullshit, but I think it's true. You can see more examples of this on a crowded bus (among other places in society) -- women scrunch up and take care not to take up an inch more room than is necessary, while men sprawl out and make sure they get all the space that's coming to them. Let me add, that I don't blame women for the whole feminine nicety thing, (though if you recognize it in yourself, you need to change it). We're conditioned our whole lives to be polite and not rock the boat -- you don't want to be called a BITCH, do you?
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